One more thing about weddings
Posted in Photos on October 28th, 2008 by adminIn the last three years I have photographed four weddings. The first was with my brother who was shooting the wedding as a favor. I offered to tag along and help produce photos. The second wedding was for an old friend and I bartered a snow board for photos. My third wedding was a small affair for a family friend. Of these three weddings, I can’t say I “enjoyed” shooting them. I photographed the events as a friend and for practice towards my overall goal of becoming a better photographer. For those who may cringe at somebody hiring an amateur, I can say two things, the first is that a photographer was not even close to the budget of these weddings and the second is that two of the three ended in divorce. In retrospect, they were perfect “practice” weddings.
The wedding I covered last weekend was different than any other I’ve ever covered. Not different in that it was small, low budget and comprised of family friends, but different in that my attitude was different. I truly had fun covering the wedding. My experience has given me more self-confidence, my practice and education helped me compose and light photos, and my desire to become a photojournalist helped me put together a story of the wedding. On top of all the above reasons, I realized that the unbreakable rules in photojournalism don’t apply. Plastic bag in your frame? Move it. Bride would look better with veil over her shoulder? Move it. Need better lighting for the subjects? Ask them to move. Need a scene to be recreated? That’s okay as well.
As a result of this last wedding, I have learned much. Most importantly, I have learned to have fun and relax because that is when the great photos are made.




